If I Could Tell My Younger Self

I wish someone had told my younger self this:

“Hey, it’s okay to be illogical. It doesn’t affect your attractiveness or intelligence. You don’t need to be ambitious or aggressive at work to prove yourself. Your carefree spirit is what makes you appealing, so stop pretending to be serious.

You’re a creative geek! You can work on your own projects. Don’t underestimate yourself just because someone says it’s not your area of expertise. Everyone is born with creativity. In fact, we are all creative beings.

You’re seeking validation from others, but you need to validate yourself. That’s the key. You don’t need to be loud to be noticed. Stop acting foolishly. That’s not who you are. You don’t need to drink or go to bars to show off. And you don’t need to date the wrong guys to test your attractiveness. Just be yourself.

You have the power to choose what’s best for you, even if it takes time. You can say ‘No’ and still be true to yourself. Setting boundaries is essential for a happy life. Protect your energy. You don’t need many friends or a large social circle, but when you’re in trouble, no one will be there.

You trust people so easily. Sometimes you were let down, but it’s okay to keep believing because your honesty is what makes you stand out from the crowd. Keep your faith.

Being emotional is not weak. It proves that you are a human with a heart.”

While no one ever said these things to me, I’m glad I realized them in my thirties. It’s never too late to make changes, and I’ve learned to make small ones daily. I’ve realized that my people will find me when I choose to shine my unique light, even if it seems unconventional or unrealistic to them. I may be a dreamer, but I’m happy to be one.

[REFLECTION PROMPTS]

1. What are the 5 things you wish someone told you when you were younger?
2. What is the one thing you can say to yourself now to boost your self-confidence and self-love?